Comments for A Diary Meant to be Found by You http://cmlucia.wordpress.com Written by Chris Lucia Sun, 01 Jun 2008 03:32:42 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on You Are Too Young to Love by kay http://cmlucia.wordpress.com/2007/11/13/you-are-too-young-to-love/#comment-43 kay Sun, 01 Jun 2008 03:32:42 +0000 http://cmlucia.wordpress.com/2007/11/13/you-are-too-young-to-love/#comment-43 I was devastated. We had been together for over two years and then he said he didn't love me anymore. He "just didn't love me." Not because there was someone else, but just because I wasn't it. He left without hesitation and without thought and then proceeded to tell me I infected every aspect of his life on the rare occasion that he was reminded of me. It seemed to me that nothing had gone wrong, it was merely a matter of him changing his mind, and THAT was the hardest part of it. All those dreams we had together were gone, as if he had woken up and decided never to fall back asleep with me again. I don't remember ever being in more pain in my life. I've been through a lot for a normal person, my friends joke that I should write a book, but I had never been in that much pain before. And it lasted and lasted. I cannot offer much consolation, except for the few blissful thoughts I had to comfort myself when I was at my worst. One- if they were that amazing, and they weren't the right person, imagine how unbelievable the RIGHT person will be. Two- Could you bring yourself to love someone who doesn't love you? Three- If they did love you at some point, did their love mean as much as yours? Obviously not, because they broke the heart, not you. You are a better lover, and that will make you have better loves in the future. I'm finally in another relationship after a long wait and a lot of pain. There are times I worry and I fear that I will lose him every day, but I can already tell that his love is so much better than what I had before. It will come. Just believe and be open. Never stop chasing the fairy tale ending I was devastated. We had been together for over two years and then he said he didn’t love me anymore. He “just didn’t love me.” Not because there was someone else, but just because I wasn’t it. He left without hesitation and without thought and then proceeded to tell me I infected every aspect of his life on the rare occasion that he was reminded of me.

It seemed to me that nothing had gone wrong, it was merely a matter of him changing his mind, and THAT was the hardest part of it. All those dreams we had together were gone, as if he had woken up and decided never to fall back asleep with me again. I don’t remember ever being in more pain in my life. I’ve been through a lot for a normal person, my friends joke that I should write a book, but I had never been in that much pain before. And it lasted and lasted.

I cannot offer much consolation, except for the few blissful thoughts I had to comfort myself when I was at my worst.

One- if they were that amazing, and they weren’t the right person, imagine how unbelievable the RIGHT person will be.

Two- Could you bring yourself to love someone who doesn’t love you?

Three- If they did love you at some point, did their love mean as much as yours? Obviously not, because they broke the heart, not you.

You are a better lover, and that will make you have better loves in the future.

I’m finally in another relationship after a long wait and a lot of pain. There are times I worry and I fear that I will lose him every day, but I can already tell that his love is so much better than what I had before. It will come. Just believe and be open.

Never stop chasing the fairy tale ending

]]> Comment on Letter to a Girl by Faith http://cmlucia.wordpress.com/2007/11/13/letter-to-a-girl/#comment-42 Faith Sun, 06 Apr 2008 10:44:22 +0000 http://cmlucia.wordpress.com/2007/11/13/letter-to-a-girl/#comment-42 this is amazing, friend. i hope that the one you love, loves you every iota that you clearly deserve.... because an open mind like this is so hard to find. i could only hope that someday someone could feel this way for myself. this is amazing, friend.
i hope that the one you love, loves you every iota that you clearly deserve…. because an open mind like this is so hard to find. i could only hope that someday someone could feel this way for myself.

]]> Comment on You Are Too Young to Love by Goli http://cmlucia.wordpress.com/2007/11/13/you-are-too-young-to-love/#comment-41 Goli Mon, 24 Mar 2008 13:09:22 +0000 http://cmlucia.wordpress.com/2007/11/13/you-are-too-young-to-love/#comment-41 I know most people who will read my comment will laugh but I truly do believe I am in love. I've actually been dating this guy for almost a month now, but we've known each other for two years. The part no one understands? We're both sophomores. I am 15 and he is 16 years old. Everyone I talk to tells me that I'm "still young" and not "throw myself away". Does anyone really get it? I'd run away in a heartbeat with him if I could. We plan to elope in our senior year then wait a year or so to have a proper wedding. His mom doesn't know, my dad doesn't know. Both would flip if they did. I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I really truly wish you all the best and that you'll find someone who is worthy of your love, and returns it. I know most people who will read my comment will laugh but I truly do believe I am in love. I’ve actually been dating this guy for almost a month now, but we’ve known each other for two years. The part no one understands? We’re both sophomores. I am 15 and he is 16 years old. Everyone I talk to tells me that I’m “still young” and not “throw myself away”. Does anyone really get it? I’d run away in a heartbeat with him if I could. We plan to elope in our senior year then wait a year or so to have a proper wedding. His mom doesn’t know, my dad doesn’t know. Both would flip if they did. I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I really truly wish you all the best and that you’ll find someone who is worthy of your love, and returns it.

]]> Comment on My Philosophy by bibomedia.com http://cmlucia.wordpress.com/about/#comment-40 bibomedia.com Fri, 07 Mar 2008 16:08:19 +0000 #comment-40 :) :)

]]> Comment on The Break-up Letter by ke-ke http://cmlucia.wordpress.com/2007/11/13/the-break-up-letter/#comment-39 ke-ke Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:10:40 +0000 http://cmlucia.wordpress.com/2007/11/13/the-break-up-letter/#comment-39 you are an amazing person so much depth and passion in your words. you can tell you really loved this person you are an amazing person so much depth and passion in your words. you can tell you really loved this person

]]> Comment on Before I Fall Asleep by Kyle Stevens http://cmlucia.wordpress.com/2007/11/15/before-i-fall-asleep/#comment-33 Kyle Stevens Sat, 15 Dec 2007 00:40:19 +0000 http://cmlucia.wordpress.com/2007/11/15/before-i-fall-asleep/#comment-33 ive been reading some of your posts randomly. im not commenting on this one specifically. im just saying, i enjoy reading ur stuff. i feel like i am in the same situation as you. heres a vid i made for my ex...after i realized i loved her. its been a rough 6 months since the breakup. we dated 4 yrs. http://youtube.com/watch?v=EDXOt6pJXUQ ive been reading some of your posts randomly. im not commenting on this one specifically. im just saying, i enjoy reading ur stuff. i feel like i am in the same situation as you.

heres a vid i made for my ex…after i realized i loved her. its been a rough 6 months since the breakup. we dated 4 yrs.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=EDXOt6pJXUQ

]]> Comment on You Are Too Young to Love by Ryan http://cmlucia.wordpress.com/2007/11/13/you-are-too-young-to-love/#comment-3 Ryan Thu, 15 Nov 2007 07:47:41 +0000 http://cmlucia.wordpress.com/2007/11/13/you-are-too-young-to-love/#comment-3 I am an ass to ask, but because I am young, in love, and on the same boat... What went wrong? I completely understood and was backing you up until you said "tell me to get over it", I have seen and heard of things people so perfect, but then falling apart, but what happened? How does it happen? is there anything A person can do? Please help another young man avoid a relationship mine if you can. I am an ass to ask, but because I am young, in love, and on the same boat… What went wrong? I completely understood and was backing you up until you said “tell me to get over it”, I have seen and heard of things people so perfect, but then falling apart, but what happened? How does it happen? is there anything A person can do? Please help another young man avoid a relationship mine if you can.

]]> Comment on Letter to a Girl by Gina http://cmlucia.wordpress.com/2007/11/13/letter-to-a-girl/#comment-2 Gina Thu, 15 Nov 2007 06:50:16 +0000 http://cmlucia.wordpress.com/2007/11/13/letter-to-a-girl/#comment-2 wow ur an amazing person. i want someone like you to one day walk into my life. thank u for writing this you have no idea how touched, moved i am by this. god bless you and may you get the girl of ur dreams. wow ur an amazing person. i want someone like you to one day walk into my life. thank u for writing this you have no idea how touched, moved i am by this. god bless you and may you get the girl of ur dreams.

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